Recently, I helped organize a forum for young women graduate students in science, technology, engineering, and mathematics (STEM). The purpose of the forum was to have an intimate dialogue about pursuing advanced degrees, climbing the corporate ladder, and love and relationships. I was eager to learn how to be successful in all of these areas and to achieve work-life balance.
But I was disappointed by the panelists’ responses to several questions, including this one: Did you ever feel like there was added pressure for you to outperform your male counterparts to climb the corporate ladder?
One panelist said that she never aspired to be at the top of her field. The others agreed. I sat and thought, well, why not? So much has been laid on the line for you to be where you are now.
At one point in time, women in STEM could not get their research funded because we were regarded as inferior. However, women like Marie Curie did not falter — she received funds from AAUW and went on to make a groundbreaking discovery.
I realized that as I sought mentorship from these women, they too needed a mentor to guide and inspire them. Unfortunately, careers in STEM are still dominated by men.
How do women stay motivated and empowered?
We have to keep the story going regarding the struggles women have faced. We must understand that one woman’s success empowers others to follow. Ladies, we have come too far to accept mediocrity. Whatever you do, be the best you can be.
This post was written by National Student Advisory Council member Joy Agee.
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